Celebrate Pregnancy, Birth and Babies

Belly Casting
The Birth of your baby is special and Mary the Midwife would like to help mold your maternity memories by creating a lasting sculpture of your pregnancy with a belly cast.

Women are making belly casts as a celebration that honors the profound experience of pregnancy.

A belly cast is for you and your family to cherish now and future generations.

All of Mary’s clients will receive a FREE belly casting kit to ensure that those memories can endure!

Pregnancy Photography
Pregnancy is a precious time that you should always capture in photographs.

Have your partner or an artistic friend snap some shots of your growing belly and baby.

If you decide to have professional photos done, Mary recommends the following:

Always have your camera or camcorder ready for the big “birth” day as well. Having those images of you and your new baby are priceless.

Birth Art
Excerpts from the book, “Birthing From Within,” By Pam England

One kind of learning comes from books. But the learning necessary for you to participate completely in your birth must come from you. In making birth art or journaling, just bringing an image to light can be surprisingly revealing (and sometimes healing).

Listening to it speak to you can tell you even more. A woman’s birth story, myths or fantasies expressed in drawings can include details, affect, and symbols that might never be expressed in conversation. In drawings she is able to express vividly her innermost beliefs, and recall perceptions and memories without confining them to the limitations of the spoken word.

What Mothers and Fathers Learn from Making Birth Art
Four things stand out from helping mothers explore their art.

The first is that pregnant women unconsciously accept scientific and or television images of birth. Few women acknowledge or even know what their own image of birth is. Yet it is their images, whether ignored or acknowledged, that will determine how they prepare for and experience pregnancy and birth.

Second, while exploring their birth art women often realize the value of spiritual and psychological support from other women during pregnancy and labor, and begin to seek or welcome that support.

Third, during the quiet, reflective process of making birth art, mothers become more aware of their unborn baby. They report more maternal feelings and a greater sense of bonding.

And finally, women express gratitude to be heard, acknowledged and given time to reflect on their inner process.

For more on what you may need and inspiration to get you started

What you will need: Art Materials · Paper: Large paper encourages artistic freedom; try 11”x17” or 18”x 24” · Crayons: Get a box of regular size and try fat crayons too they help express the “big picture.” · Pastels: A box of 8 – 12 colors. Note: These are a favorite. You may enjoy the soothing feeling of blending the soft pretty colors with your fingers. You can also “ paint” a pastel drawing with a wet brush. · Paint: Acrylic, watercolor, tempera or fingerpaint. · Brushes: One or two big brushes will allow, free movement while painting (the same feeling and movement your body-mind needs in birth). Don’t limit yourself by using those scrawny little brushes that come in the paint box! · Colored Pencils: There are soft and hard lead to choose from. Colors blend and shade more easily with soft leads. Some pencils turn to water colors when touched with a wet brush. These are great for journaling. · Clay: Basic gray clay is cheap and can be bought ready to use in 5 to 20 lb. bags. · Sculpting Tools: You can but an inexpensive set of tools or use kitchen utensils (chopstick, garlic press, rolling pin, fork, and spoon and so on).

You don’t need to buy everything on the list to get started. Choose a few that appeal to you and begin.

Try This:

Begin With A Doodle
Doodling and scribbling are a good way to warm up your imagination and drawing muscles. If you’re not used to the art media, play with them and discover what they can do as you doodle. Following the instructions below, make a doodle using as many colors as you want. So to begin, relax let your eyes partly or even completely close. Become aware of the movement or stillness within you. What are you feeling in your body and heart at this moment? Is the sensation warm/cold, sluggish/alert, happy/sad, tense/soft or open/closed? Notice any thoughts that come up, then gently let them go. When you are ready, take up your crayon, pastel or paint brush and begin flowing onto the paper. Let the movement or intensity in your body-mind mach the movements as you work. After you are finished, sit back and contemplate your doodle. What is the feeling in it? It may feel slow, fast, flowing or constricted. Does this match what’s happening within you? Just observe your doodle, don’t critique it. Continue gazing at your doodle until you see an image (turn the paper around if necessary). Then outline or highlight it with a contrasting color. Next for the Gentle Exploration Guidelines.

What To Do
Before jumping into making Birth Art, take a few minutes to quiet your mind. Entering a meditative, receptive state, rather than a goal oriented one, heightens creativity. Images which speak to us truthfully and eloquently surface when we are not trying to make them happen. There is no need to bring anything extra to this process. Just as natural labor unfolds spontaneously, regardless of an individual’s intention, so should making birth art. Bringing an intention to create something fantastic or original, or trying to impress someone, does not enhance the process. Save your Birth Art. Date it and make a note describing the symbols, colors and what it means to you. Take any or all of your Birth Art to your birth room to inspire you. Later, you and your child might enjoy looking at what you made preparing for his/her birth.

What You Can Do
See how many ways you can creatively express and explore the following through Drawing, Painting, Sculpting, Writing or even a Dance!

Pregnant Woman How do you see yourself as a Pregnant Woman? Being Pregnant What is being pregnant like for you? (a physical experience, a spiritual feeling, a thought or even an abstract image) Fantasy of Labor and Birth What is your fantasy of labor and birth? (realistic or completely imaginary, physical or emotional?) Journey/Landscape of Birth Imagine your birth as a journey through a landscape; it could be water, earth, sky, forest, desert or anything else? What’s the weather like? What and who would you want with you on your journey? Door to Birth If there were a secret door to birth, to giving birth, what would it look like? What’s behind, around, or in front of it? Is anyone in the picture? The Opening Create an image that will help your body relax, open and bring your baby into this world. Drawing on Your Animal Nature What animal do you associate with “easy birthing” or “good mothering?” Artist-Historian Imagine you are an artist-historian showing someone form another planet or culture what birth in our culture is like. Your assignment is to record in a drawing, or a series of drawings, how women give birth in this time and place. Draw the birthplace and illustrate the customs. If there are people at births, show what they are doing there. Facing Fear Everybody has some fear about there upcoming birth. Freely express what you most fear happening in labor. Transformation of Fear If what you fear were to occur, draw or write how you would cope with that reality. A Womb with a View Imagine you could take a peek through a window in your womb. What is your baby doing in his or her womb all day? What does he\she look like? See? Hear? feel? 12. Closing Mandala This project has been a big hit with parents during their last child birth class. Cut a circle, of whatever size seems best with you , out of cardboard, poster board or foam board. On it use collage words, drawings, or painting to portray the fallowing themes: the relationship between you and your pregnant belly, the unity between you and your baby, and or the learning from the class (or this book) you’ll want to take with you.

A Gentle Exploration Process
Stand back and quietly look at the art. Be curious. Notice what you may not have seen first. Concentrate on the feeling in the drawing or writing. What was the feeling when you were making this drawing/ sculpture/poem/dance? Is there a story, a time, or place, behind this drawing? Is this the beginning, middle or end of this story? Was there anything surprising to you in this image? Is there anything that doesn’t make sense to you? Is there anything you wish you had included in the drawing? What might the missing part symbolize about your life? Is there more?.... Draw or paint the next image in the story.

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